Half Hollow Hills, A Special School District

Tonight, the Half Hollow Hills school district did something pretty remarkable. They approved next year's calendar, which has days off for two holidays not previously noted by the district: Diwali and Eid al-Fitr. I am proud of the school district from which I and my children have benefited. I am also proud of my childhood friend and former neighbor Niti for being a leader in the push for observance of the holidays.

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Sufficiently Suffolk

Suffolk County stands out from the rest of New York in a number of ways. 8/10 of the highest-grossing 7-11s in America are in Suffolk. Suffolk leads the state in heroin and fentanyl overdoses. Suffolk also leads the state in DWI crashes. Suffolk begins at Melville and ends at Montauk, spanning more than 80 miles long. And so much of those 80+ miles are filled with beauty. Somehow, I think all of these things are connected.

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Shrinking the World Down One Community at a Time

On Monday, I will appear on an "Expert Hangout" in an authors' Facebook community. I will speak about legal and business terminology and concepts and how intellectual property affects authors. The interesting thing about this community is that it will be attended by plenty of people outside of the U.S. And I have already informed the community members that I am generally unfamiliar with laws outside of the U.S.

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Ties Against the Tide

I hate neckties. I know I am not the only one, but I would love to see a fashion revolution in the workplace where male professionals--doctors, lawyers, accountants--ban neckties. Have you ever thought about why people where them in the first place? Croatian soldiers in the 17th century tied their uniforms in a certain way, and Louis XIII LIKED it. So there. Go ahead, wear that cravat (the French terminology). Even if it cuts off your oxygen. Or spreads disease.

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Putting Up Roadblocks

The first Executive Order to come from the new President was withdrawal from the Trans-Pacific Partnership. This was a relatively uncontroversial move, and was also a pretty toothless move, as Congress had effectively withdrawn the US from TPP in 2016. The Electronic Frontier Foundation and many other technologists were in favor of withdrawing from TPP for a very different reason--secretive clauses about US copyright--than the President's protectionism.

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Happiness is a Warm Trader Joe's

I am fascinated by Trader Joe's. How does it manage to never lose its shine? It is a privately held subsidiary of a German company that earns over $10 billion a year, yet every one feels like an Anytown, U.S.A. mom and pop shop. The brand is so well-cultivated, and yet, unlike Disney, which has been not-so-secretly nicknamed "Mauschwitz" by its employees, there doesn't seem to be a Sword of Damacles hovering over its staff to conform to the corporate brand.

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Putting the Past in the Past

I remember reading years ago that resumes would become a thing of the past. People's personal web sites or biographies or sizzle reels would take the place of the old staid resumes, and that would be a good thing.To be honest, I don't know how that shift is progressing in the workforce at large; I haven't updated my resume in years. But I am curious about the limitations of things like resumes.

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To Be First and Last

In my sophomore year of college, I picked up a slim paperback that would change my perspective entirely. "22 Immutable Laws of Marketing" by Ries & trout is a quick read, and its lessons are easy to grasp. It was my very first marketing book, and I referred to it often as I started up organizations, and then businesses. I still recommend it to clients and friends, and I know it has gotten a lot of attention because Tim Ferriss considers it one of the most important books for an entrepreneur to read. But he recommends the original 1993 version that I still read, even though it is incredibly dated.

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Connecting the Lonely Person of Faith

Connecting the Lonely Person of Faith

"I am lonely." These words must have been radical 60 years ago. "...I, thank God, do enjoy the love and friendship of many. I meet people, talk, preach, argue, reason; I am surrounded by comrades and acquaintances. And yet, companionship and friendship do not alleviate the passional experience of loneliness which trails me constantly." I've been thinking of Joseph B. Soloveitchik's words all day... especially today.

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When a Full Moon is just a Full Moon

When a Full Moon is just a Full Moon

Before sunrise this morning, I wheeled the garbage pail to the curb and noticed I could see a lot more than I usually could in the dark. A phenomenal full moon cast its light so bright, I paused to think about it. It suddenly, um, dawned on me that today was Friday the 13th. I thought for a moment about triskaidekaphobia, the paralyzing fear of the number 13. I imagined that it would be a big deal if I believed in superstitions.

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When Cars Come Alive

When Cars Come Alive

The pediatrician told us to go to the emergency room. My son's asthma attack wasn't so bad that we needed an ambulance, but the doctor didn't have the magnesium sulfate that an emergency room would. So--it was so many years ago, but still fresh in my memory!--on an icy narrow one-way seat in Queens, I buckled my toddler into his four-point harness, as a row of cars honked at me. I filled with rage. But I stayed focused. I drove ahead. When we reached the service road, the car behind me screeched, pulled alongside me, and I saw a middle finger through the foggy glass.

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Takeaways from College Interviews

Takeaways from College Interviews

Every year for a decade or so, I have interviewed high school students for my alma mater. As much as I want to give back, I find myself enriched by the experience each year, too. One student years ago introduced me to the concept of "10,000 hours of purposeful practice." Others, who have excelled in research laboratories, have given me insight into the future of medical developments and biotech advancements. Still others regale me with fascinating tales of trips to Africa, Asia, Latin America. But I warn them, "This interview will likely make little difference on your likelihood of acceptance."

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Back to the Future of Business

Back to the Future of Business

Go is the oldest game in the world. I used to play it when I was younger, and I was intrigued when I was told the greatest Go masters were more deft than a computer, because Go was as much an art as a discipline. When Garry Kasparov lost to Deep Blue in a 1996 chess match in which Kasparov had no ability to psych out his opponent, the supremacy of machine over man was seen as a watershed moment. Still, no computer had beaten a Go champion.

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Parents in an Age of Entrepreneurship

Parents in an Age of Entrepreneurship

There was a time when we were spending almost $35,000 a year on child care. My oldest was in day care, and my youngest was just born, and, with no infant day care in the neighborhood, we decided to hire a nanny. Note that I didn't say we were forced to hire a nanny. I am a firm believer in the ready availability of choices, no matter how limited the options. We could have looked outside the neighborhood for infant day care. We could have hired a nanny to watch both kids. We could have done any number of things.

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